News and updates from Paul and Cathy Middleton, serving in southern Africa.

15 February 2004

Empty nest syndrome

One of the first major changes in our life since arriving here was that ‘we three’ are now ‘we two’ as Matthew has successfully deployed himself at University.

We drove him down at the beginning of February, an almost 2000 mile round trip and about 30 hours on the road which roughly equates to driving from London to the very north of Scotland and back.


He is studying Journalism at Rhodes University in Grahamstown, a small historical town an hours drive from the south coast and half way along the bottom of Africa between Cape Town and Durban. It's a small uni of about 6000 students, who are known as Rhodents (many a true word....). He has a busy schedule – academically and socially, and has apparently managed to get all his assignments in on time and passed his end of term exams. He keeps busy with lots of uni activities including being a member of the climbing and squash clubs as well as the live music society and the student newspaper. We are looking forward to having him back at home with us during his term breaks.

So now the nest is empty, M's off becoming clever and we are left feeling old, but .... the house stands a chance of remaining tidy (ish).

P n' C